vajussy:

You don’t need to be traumatized by a sex act or have already tried it in order to not want to do it, sometimes you just… don’t want to do it and that’s fine.

Like someone legit was convinced that I had been raped and wasn’t being honest about it cause I said I didn’t like to be penetrated. When I kept insisting that I hadn’t and I just don’t like being penetrated they thought I was being prudish and kept trying to get me to do it and that didn’t exactly end well.

You not wanting to do something is the only reasoning you need for not wanting to do it period and anybody insisting otherwise is an asshole and you don’t need them around.

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