For people with Venus in Gemini, love and affection is more a matter of the mind than it is of the heart.
They develop feelings for someone they think is a good partner for them.
Them showing affection is often not a spontaneous action, but something they think should be doing.
When they’re in a relationship, it’s like they’re using a manual – We’re together, that means we should hold hands. We have been together for a period of time which indicates that it is now time for having sex for the first time.
They like to analyze the dynamics of relationships like a scientist, not just live it.