
Diva piece snapped by yours truly in 1999 in the borough of Brooklyn!


Niko Riam photographed by Simon Lipman for Paper Magazine
Stylist: Adele Cany
Hair: Brady Lea
Makeup: Rebekah Lidstone
When you’re a Caribbean Transman who’s been hospitalized numerous times and recently almost died twice last month due to trans surgeries and you’ve finally worked up enough energy and faith in the Universe to dance to some African and Soca music. Give Thanks. Ashe.

Flashback Friday !
white women literally dont make sense
Okay usually I just brush these things off because it’s not worth my time. So please tell me the meaning behind this.
i mean for starters u jus said its not worth ur time but u tryna initiate a discussion so does that makes sense to u? bc to me it dont

rich white ppl coopted the term selfcare to not feel shitty about being selfish and not feel guilty about buying useless expensive shit when term was meant for poor/disabled/poc and was radical bc it was for ppl who capitalistic system tells they dont deserve to be cared for
similar to many posts of ppl calling themselves empths that r just ppl complaining about others having feelings near them and not wanting to deal with the thought that other ppl also have a rich inner emotional life and seeing that fact as a burden instead of like ..having empathy
Like extremely tru there r ppl who feel others pain more acutely but those ppl aren’t the ones concerned with the kind of “pls b gentle with also being a living person near me i get anxiety about being reminded that there r narritive threads other than my own” self protection